Does Phone Sex Count as a Taboo in Couples?

Sexually explicit talk on the phone? Does this entice you? Have you tried it before? Most of us try it at least once in our lives, and some of us hate it, but some of us love it and we want more! But is this a taboo matter? Should couples have phone sex? Many things related to sex can be healthy, even phenomena that are still considered taboo topics… but if phone sex is something both partners enjoy, why would it be a bad thing? If anything, it is another healthy way one can play with their sexuality! So, here are some benefits, and maybe tiny cons of phone sex!

No clumsy awkward moments!

When you are in a room with your partner, and you get naked and start cuddling, or doing whatever gets the two of you love birds in the mood, these first several encounters that are the most intimate can be very awkward. Sometimes the partners are clumsy and they don’t know how to relax… If you think about it, maybe it is better to try phone sex first, like some sort of an overture. No one will be too self-conscious, no overthinking about your flaws and blemishes, no analyzing and thinking about where to put your hand, and slight details like that. You don’t even see them, they don’t see you, but you can be very naughty, playful and sexy.

Great for distant relationships

This also goes for those who can’t see their partners every day because they work too hard, or they have a lot of obligations… Yes, it’s great for distant relationships, when you can’t really see your partner often, but at least you can play with your phone conversation or get naughty with sexting. Sex is crucial for most couples, and why let the distance ruin your connection? Nobody has to be deprived of sex, you can just use your phone to turn your partner on. Also, even if your significant other comes from your city, but you can’t see them often for other reasons, phone sex can spice up your sex life and bring you closer together. 

Phone sex is fun and healthy

Almost everything that has to do with sex is healthy. For instance, we all know orgasms are something we all need to be happy, fulfilled and confident. And phone sex is just another version of you making love with your partner, somebody you love. It can be very fun and you can say whatever you want. Even if you aren’t wearing sexy lingerie, you can say you are to tempt your partner and drive them crazy.

Still, be careful…

Apart from the fact that this act doesn’t involve a personal touch, here’s what can be creepy about it – you might be recorded! You never know with these things, your partner may do it, or someone else may do it, and then this can end up somewhere utterly unpleasant for you. Also, you won’t be able to cuddle your lover after you get off, and this is something we like to do after sex. Surely you can think of even more cons, something more significant to you.

In a nutshell, couples having phone sex can be fun and addictive, and it shouldn’t be a taboo topic. Sure, there are some downsides to it, but aren’t there a downside for everything today? We can never really be 100% pleased, safe, satisfied, confident about something, and so on. Sex is always risky for various reasons, no matter where and how we do it. If you like the idea of phone sex, why not try it?